Hi Stephen, I would suspect it might be because you are feeling guilty about it? Or perhaps you have a medical problem you could research into. If it is the first, I would say there is no reason why you should feel ashamed. Why be ashamed because of how you were created? We were all created to have sexual desires as part of our species’ natural motivation for procreation and survival. The only thing the bible says about that is that we should not overly indulge in lust constantly but have a small period of separation in order to meditate on God and spiritual matters. Since you joined into one, it is fine to express your affection to your wife and give her pleasure. You can find much on the internet to help teach these things to you. If your intention is to give your wife pleasure because you love her and want her to be happy, there is nothing wrong with learning how to do this.<\/p>\n
Karel<\/p>\n