First I was molested two years ago and Im scared because the guy who did it can get out at anytime\u00a0<\/i><\/p>\n
hmm, that’s a tricky one. Does he know how to find you and have you approached the local authorities for advice?<\/p>\n
No and I’m 17 so I’m really scared he knows where I love cuz I was friends with his daughter<\/i><\/p>\n
I would try expressing your concerns to the authority because you might be able to get some sort of protection. Or at least they are aware of your predicament and will be more ready if things get scary, or offer good advice. Beyond that perhaps purchase a tazer\/pepper spray and learn some self-defense.<\/p>\n
Ok how should I deal with the emotional part<\/i><\/p>\n
well, if you equip yourself with the precautions I mentioned, or any other, this will give you more emotional security and confidence. Seek the help of friends and loved ones for additional protection and emotional security. And, if possible, consider the possibility of confronting him to seek an amicable agreement and understanding. Be cautious but try to avoid living in constant fear, but seek peace in your heart, and compassion and forgiveness. I am sure this will not be easy but try focusing on the positive, instead of negative fear-based energy. Crossing my fingers for you!<\/p>\n
Thanks sometimes I really need gods help<\/i><\/p>\n
keep in mind that prayer is, in a way, focusing on positive rather than negative thoughts. By praying you are imagining what you are asking of God, and with faith placing your trust in him, as if he has already saved you. So keep meditating on that, and take concerted steps as well.<\/p>\n
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